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The other side of this is that Chinese men are generally very attentive, considerate and caring, and will do their best to help you out and be there whenever you need them. Anyone who has been in China for more than a couple of weeks will have noticed that the gender dynamics of relationships are slightly different.Matching outfits abound, and for women, speaking in a whiny voice, stamping your feet, complaining and being incapable of carrying your own bag are seen as cute here as opposed to annoying or childish. An American girl I spoke to told me she essentially slipped into the role of a Chinese girlfriend and would at her boyfriend, originally as a joke. But this backfired when she was genuinely angry with her man and wanted to have a serious talk about the relationship. Part of your appeal may be your independence and the different way you communicate with him.
Comfort, reliability, getting on well with his parents and being family oriented will often take precedence over passion, common interests and sexual compatibility.
Keeping It In The Family When you date a Chinese man, you aren’t just dating him; you’re dating his family and all their expectations of you.
Family relationships in China are different to those in the West.
This undoubtedly has an effect on the way Western women view Chinese men.
Another reason is the relative conservatism of Chinese relationships; gender roles in Chinese relationships are so clearly defined that even lesbian couples frequently divide themselves in to masculine and feminine counterparts, T (for tomboy), and P (for princess).
Walk down any street or into any bar in China and you will see the oh-so familiar sight of foreign men with Chinese girls.